Sure, sexual liberation is so very important for women. It might be, until you realise that you can feel bad afterwards. It’s liberating to take what you want sexually, but does it give you character? Does it make you more as a person to use men for the sake of physical pleasure? Can you be fully liberated if you don’t fully trust him? Unfortunately, what a lot of society today thinks as liberated, is really just let him or her be ‘free to get their rocks off with whomever they want, whenever they want, in whatever way they want’ – but we won’t tell her of the pain a woman might experience afterwards.
Frances turned her weary head around to see the other 10 male foxes speeding up to reach Felesha’s heels. Although they had endured tough times together, they had just enough to survive another winter. ” she asked Felesha, who was so skinny that her bones showed through her beautiful red fur. ”“Oh, I’m very sick, Frances.”“Why don’t you call one of your males for help? Why are many people encouraging women to have casual partners these days? There is a small percentage of women out there who can truly have casual sex, and see the man leave afterwards (without investing emotionally in her) – and not suffer anguish, pain and regret over the casual sex.Halfway through the winter, Felesha and Frances crossed paths again. If men can do it, then we should be able to as well. I suspect (and I could be wrong) that the women who do this are women who truly have zero emotional attachment to the sex partner they had; and they were also using their casual partner to get their rocks off.Casual sex is different to short term sexual relationships. a one night stand OR a courtship where the man has zero investment in the woman) is the area in which I’m focusing on in this article, and it is also the area in which women stand to risk a lot for virtually nothing.Women stand to lose more for using sex in the wrong way, than men do.“Casual sex” in my definition is sex where one or both partners are emotionally disinterested in the other.Only, she’s emailing me because she’s in incredible pain the next day, or week, or month afterwards. Maybe she was liberated in the moment of having the sex – which isn’t a bad thing – but I think we need to be aware of the idea of short term benefits versus long term benefits, and how that works in the context of sex; because in the context of sex, short term gains (getting a new good looking partner for one night of great sex), can have long term costs, just like it did for Felesha Fox. But let’s look a little deeper…When was the last time those people (in society) felt you for who you are?
With that out of the way – here are some important considerations…So society tells us to be free to bed whomever. When was the last time “those people” who encourage you to sleep around, gave you guidance from this tender place, of having felt into you, felt your heart, felt your soul, and recognised who you truly are?
And men’s interpretation of ‘desire’ for women differs to women’s interpretation of men’s desire for them.
In other words: in search of feeling desired, often, women find themselves left by the man the next morning – footing a huge cost in the name of fulfilling the hole where they wanted to feel desired.
Does society, and gossip magazines tell you to have indiscriminate sex, whilst feeling into your heart?
Hearing of your past and showing you deep understanding for who you are? Most people avoid the people who would pin them down through love and open them up through their deepest layers like this.
One cold winter morning, Felesha Fox came running alongside her friend, Frances Fox. It’s winter time, you need the backup of young lads and you’re a young fox with your youth and beauty going for you. They are buggers.”“Oh.” Said Frances.“Why, look at you, Frances, all fat and plump, with that spring in your step! She went everywhere to find her long time friend, but she was nowhere to be seen. Here is PART 2 of The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex. It is a mating strategy that gets a bit of flack, because women engaging in indiscriminate sex, or even casual sex, interfere with other loyal women’s mating strategies.